Therapy for polyamory & open relationships
Polyamorous, open, and non-monogamous clients often face unique challenges that feel overwhelming or confusing to navigate. Below are some examples of common issues that Nick's clients have faced and conquered.
Communication issues
Effective communication is essential in any relationship, and polyamorous relationships can add complexity to communication dynamics. Couples may seek counseling to improve communication skills, establish boundaries, and navigate the complexities of open and honest communication within a polyamorous framework.
Jealousy and insecurity
Feelings of jealousy, insecurity, or inadequacy can arise in polyamorous relationships, particularly when navigating multiple partners or managing feelings of comparison. Counseling can help couples explore the root causes of jealousy, develop strategies for managing it constructively, and strengthen trust and security in the relationship.
Boundary negotiations
Establishing and maintaining clear boundaries is crucial in polyamorous relationships, but it can be challenging to navigate boundaries around time, intimacy, and emotional connections with multiple partners. Counseling can help couples clarify their boundaries, negotiate agreements that feel fair and comfortable for all parties involved, and address any boundary violations or conflicts that arise.
New relationship energy
New relationship energy (NRE) refers to the intense emotional and sexual energy that often accompanies the beginning stages of a new relationship. Polyamorous couples may seek counseling to navigate the impact of NRE on existing relationships.
Family and social challenges
Polyamorous couples may face challenges related to social stigma, family acceptance, and legal recognition of their relationships. Counseling can provide support in navigating these external challenges, developing coping strategies, and fostering resilience and empowerment as a couple.
Emotional processing
Polyamorous relationships can involve complex emotional dynamics, including managing feelings of compersion (joy in a partner's happiness with another), processing jealousy or insecurity, and navigating feelings of love and attachment with multiple partners.
As a poly-affirming and sex-positive therapist, Nick can be a valuable resource for polyamorous couples seeking to navigate the unique challenges and opportunities of their relationship structure, deepen their connection with each other and their partners, and build a strong and resilient foundation for their relationship(s) to thrive.
“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.”
— Frank Lloyd Wright